While you are waiting for these bad days to pass, I want you to dream of every goal that you have worn out, no matter what it is.
I want you to always remember these things in your life so that you realize that you don't have to feel completely bankrupt, so don't panic about how you're going to do this in the coming months, you can make a strong start to your bad days. You just need to think about the challenges that you have overcome and realize that you can deal with each and every one of them.
I want you to imagine everything that you have gone through in your life up to this point that has been bad, every other situation that you thought was the end of your whole universe as you thought it was, and remember that this is not the only challenge that you have gone through. Get rid of the fear that you have about it. Because you have been through more difficult ones. I want you to remember these things.
These things are nothing.
The bad days were never forgotten, you did it. You forgot. Everything you were terrified of, you've lived through. You know it. Everything you knew for sure, you thought, would end your life, would make you an unhappy person. But it passed ... and it made you better.
When you go through a challenging, dead-end or scary time in your life, you are given an opportunity, and that is to realize that the problems are not outside, they are inside. There is nothing that you have to run and hide from. There is nothing threatening to hurt you. The biggest danger you face right now is what you may fail to get rid of out of fear. Your biggest enemy is yourself.
Because that's how it always happens. Relationships end, beautiful words end, lovers lose. Cities move, people move, the world turns.
When you are going through a challenging, dead-end or scary time in your life, you are given an opportunity and that is to realize that the problems are not outside, they are inside. There is nothing that you have to run and hide from. There is nothing threatening to hurt you. The biggest danger you face right now is what you may fail to get rid of out of fear. Your biggest enemy is yourself.
Because that's how it always happens. Relationships end, beautiful words end, lovers lose. Cities move, people move, the world turns.
You are not punished or tested. You don't need to earn your own peace or blame yourself for something you never did.
This can be the moment that changes everything for you, because only when you are faced with a problem do you realize that you have the power to come out of it.
Not everybody is ready to hear that. Not everybody wants to. Some people feel safer being a victim of their situation. They are okay with it. Eventually they get tired of it. They realize, after a while they realize that they are powerful. After a while, instead of living with adversity, they start fighting it.
But once you realize that you want more for yourself, you are ready for it. Eventually you realize that the biggest challenge in your life is just the state of your own mind. One day you realize your own power, your own strength, whether you are enjoying the day or preparing for it with joy.
Change happens to each one of us. It is the quality of our response that determines whether we suffer or not.
When you come to the end of a problem, you realize that your suffering was in vain. You realize that you don't want to face your troubles. But it is not too late. Because it is endless to discover yourself, to change. In other problems, in your bad days, this power of yours will be engraved in your mind.
Life changes only the way you make it change.
Your troubles will pass when you become a good thinker.
